W810i won't connect in phone-mode
 

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I have got a SE W810i which won't connect to my pc with the PC Suite software... In File-transfer mode it works fine, but in phone-mode it only gets that its a w810 and lets me make the OBEX file transfer shortcut in the folder.... then it doesnøt do more... it says that it's not connected :S
i've tried to connect with the program MyPhoneExplorer, but here it will connect in phone mode and i can transfer files... but here it just won't show my contacts.... http://developer.sonyericsson.com/im...ticons/sad.gif
i have tried to flash both firmware's with the XS++ and it works fine, but it still won't connect propably (not sure of the spelling :)) so i think thats it not any softwarerelated problem... but maybe some of the GDFS or EROM.... if it's not that either it could only be a hardwareproblem???

My software now is CXC 1250316 R4EA031


Really hope you can help... http://developer.sonyericsson.com/im...cons/happy.gif